Guide to achieve great orgasms

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Added on: Jul 16, 2021

    A team of enthusiasts working to on eliminating stigma around sex. They aim to bring issues of sexual wellness and pleasure to the forefront.

    Have you ever wanted to get turned on and experience some mind blowing orgasms? Do you wish to embark on a journey of discovering your sexuality? Welcome to the only guide you’ll ever need on self pleasure. 

    There are many ways to indulge in self pleasure, and in today’s world there is a plethora of sex toys and sexual aids that you can use to reach that big O. Self pleasure sans a partner is also a very safe way to experience pleasure, without having to worry about pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. Solo female masturbation also has several health benefits such as it helps to reduce stress, enable better sleep, relieve menstrual cramps and makes you feel more comfortable with your body. 

    Here is a detailed guide on everything you need to know to experience self pleasure

    What are the different methods of solo female masturbation?

    Your body consists of different erotic zones and stimulating any of these zones can help you attain self pleasure. Today, there are sex toys and sexual aids available for all kinds of orgasms and based on what gets you on the most, you can decide which toy to use during solo play. Here are the different types of orgams one experiences to attain sexual pleasure:

    1. Clitoral orgasm: 

    The clitoris is one of the most sensitive parts of a woman’s body. It has a whopping 8000 nerve endings that are extremely sensitive to touch. Women often use their fingers to attain clitoral climax but you can use vibrators, and other clitoral toys to get turned on and stimulate your clitoris during solo play or solo female masturbation. 

    2. Vaginal Orgasm:

    If penetration turns you on, then you can try achieving a vaginal orgasm to attain sexual self pleasure. There are many sexual aids such as didos and vibrators for women that are available to help you get there. Get turned on and feel your vaginal muscles throb with powerful vibrators and the best sex products during solo play! 

    3. Anal Pleasure:

    Some people are into anal pleasure, and you have a variety of anal toys to help you get comfotable. Remember, the anus does not produce natural lubrication, therefore it is very important to apply a lot of lube before you indulge in any anal play. Explore a range of the best sex products available for anal play on our online store to get turned on! 

    4. Use a combination of toys and more:

    During solo female masturbation, if you want greater pleasure you can use both your fingers as well as a sex toy for greater sexual pleasure. For example, you can use a sex toy for penetration and your fingers for a clitoral orgasm. The more the merrier!

    5. Explore other sensitive zones in your body:

    Your genitals are not the only erogenous zones in your body. Remember when Monica from Friends talks about 7 erogenous zones in the body? There are many many more. You can squeeze your nipples, use feathers, ice cubes, gels and many more on your stomach, inner thighs etc. All these zones produce pleasurable sensations in your body, which you must explore during solo play!  

    How to get started on your journey towards self pleasure?

    Solo female masturbation or self pleasure is a very personal experience for every woman. There are no defined sets of rules for self pleasure. One method might work for someone else, but it may not work for you. Masturbation and exploring sexual fantasies is a journey that takes a while before you can truly become comfortable with your sexuality and your body. If you’re a beginner to masturbation, no worries – you have a range of the best sex products and safe sexual aids to help you get started. 

    1. Get the ambience right:

    Getting your environment in the mood is as important as you getting into a sensual mood. You dont want to mastubate in a dirty, smelly or noisy environment. You can apply nice bedsheets, dim the lighting, light some candles, use aroma therapy and home fragrances to set the mood. You can also play some sensual music to get turned on.  

    2. Lube up: 

    For some reason, there is a stigma around using lubricants during sex or solo play. It is assumed that all women naturally produce a lot of lube to get turned on which is not at all true. Many perfectly healthy women have trouble producing natural lubrication and there’s where artificial lube comes into the picture. These lubricants are sexual aids that are safe to use and they also come in really fragrant flavours! Lube helps relieve any pain and enables toys to penetrate your vagina much more easily during self pleasure. At Love Depot, shop from a range of natural, flavoured, silicone, and water based lubricants! 

    3. Let your imagination run wild:

    Do you have a major crush on someone at work? Or is there a date you’re looking forward to the following weekend? Whoever it is, allow your mind to engage in sexual fantasies with this person. Imagine in graphic detail what turns you on and what sexual acts excites you the most! Your imagination is often the gateway to the big-O. If you’re having trouble imagining, you can read erotica or watch pornography. However, while indulging in solo female masturbation, make sure that the porn you watch is verified and has performers that have consented to perfoming sexual acts in the video.

    Explore the best sex products on our online store to get turned on for solo play and help your imagination run wilder! 

    4. Explore other erogenous zones: 

    As mentioned before, engage in some nipple play, thighs etc and feel every sensation come alive. 

    5. Take your own time:

    Self pleasure is not a competition. It’s not about who reaches an orgasm first. Play around with different parts of your body and see what turns you on. Slowly experiment with different sex toys, sexual aids and the best sex products during solo play to see what you like the most. 

    Let’s explore each orgasm in greater detail

    1. Clitoral self pleasure:

    As mentioned before, the clitoral is insanely sensitive! The clitoris is twice as sensitive as the male penis. Ladies, it’s time to stimulate your clit and get some mind blowing orgasms. Here’s how you can experience clitoral self pleasure:

    • To get turned on, you can start by slowly caressing and feeling your outer pubis and run your fingers up and down your outer and inner vulva 
    • Find your clitoris and slowly start rubbing it back and forth in a rhythmic fashion. Once your clitoris becomes wet or after you’ve applied lube, you can increase the pace of stimulation.
    • You can also buy a vibrator for women from our online store, to reach an orgasm! 

    That’s pretty much it to clitoral solo female masturbation! Find a rhythm you like, stick to it, increase the pace and achieve self pleasure. 

    2. Vaginal self pleasure:

    Many women initially find it difficult to get turned on and achieve self pleasure through vaginal penetration. Getting there is a journey, that you can experince through your fingers or sex toys. To achieve a vaginal orgasm, here are some things you should do:

    • It’s important that the vagina be wet before you penetrate it with your fingers or a sex toy. You can use lube, and slowly apply it in your vagina. You can also rub your vagina from the outside to stimulate the nerve endings on your vagina and clitoris. 
    • Once you are sufficiently wet, slowly insert your fingers inside and create an up-down thrusting motion with your sexual aid.  The same can be done with a dildo or vibrator for women too. 
    • Increase the pace of motion and feel your heartbeat racing. You will experience a tingling sensation in your fingers and toes and also feel muscle contractions in your inner thighs. All these sensations indicate an upcoming orgasm. While you may experience a big orgasm, don’t worry if you don’t. You will still experience a lot of pleasure and get turned on throughout the whole process. 

    Vibrators, especially G spot vibrators for women are a great way to stimulate your G-spot, the most sensitive area in your vagina, for those coveted explosive orgasms. Do invest in a good sexual aid or vibrator on your journey towards self pleasure. 

    3. Anal Self Pleasure:

    The rectum and vagina share a wall where the G spot is located, so you can indirectly stimulate your G spot by indulging in anal self pleasure. But, as stresed upon before, make sure you use plenty of lubrication before you indulge in anal play! 

    Here are some steps you can follow to achive anal self pleasure during solo female masturbation: 

    • Start by rubbing the outer opening of your anus  and slowly insert a finger inside your anus. You can also insert a sex toy inside once your anus is fully lubricated. 
    • You can either try a circular rhythm or normal in and out penetration. Increase the pace until it builds up to an orgasm. 
    • Toys are a great way to achieve anal self pleasue! Use anal beads, butt plugs and vibrators to get started. 

    While, it may initially feel uncomfortable, with regular experimentation through sexual aids, get turned on and enjoy solo play to the fullest! 

    4. Combined self pleasure:

    Why not turn things up, by simultaneously stimulating various erogenous zones in your body? To really get that full body experience, 

    • You can use both your hands to stimulate various erogenous zones such as your inner thighs, nipples and neck. You can also use a combined or hybrid vibrator to stimulate both your clitoris as well as your vagina. 
    • You can use your fingers to stimulate your clitoris and a sex toy for vaginal penetration. Make sure you use the best sex products for safe and pleasurable penetration. 
    • Slowly build up the pace for both and experience mind blowing orgasms!

    Combined self pleasure is a great way to get turned on real quick, and also experiment with multiple areas of your body. Foreplay toys, dildos and vibrators for women are a great place to get started during solo play! 

    Self pleasure and solo female masturbation is a wonderful way for all of us to feel heightened sexual experiences and become comfortable with our sexuality. It is when we figure out what we like, that we are able to share these experiences with a partner too.

    At Love Depot, shop from a range of clitoral stimulation toys, anal toys, different types of vibrators for women, foreplay toys, BDSM toys and more to get started on your journey towards self pleasure! 

    It’s time to break those shackles and embrace new sexual adventures!

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    Added on: Jan 30, 2023

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      The subject of ‘intimacy’ is one that can be explored from various angles and perceptions. Yes, it plays a vital role in building a bond with your partner… but it goes beyond everyday gestures and regular love-making sessions. We’re talking about bringing in a special guest in the form of sex toys. If you thought these power packed tools are meant mainly for solo play, we’re here to tell you - it’s not. Use them with your partner and see how your sexual horizon expands beyond measure. Here are our top 5 picks from the Love Depot website. Love Triangle Air Pulse Stimulator One of the most easily accessible and usable clit vibrators, this toy can really make clitoral play a heavenly affair. Enjoy the sensation it delivers that even fingers cannot achieve with its multi-vibration combinations. The two of you can even use it in the shower or bathtub as it is designed to be waterproof. Exciting, right? Download the Satisfyer app and you can even customise the vibrations to complement your sex playlist. Endless Love Multi Vibrator A toy that delivers mutual stimulation that leads to mutual satisfaction, the Endless Love Multi Vibrator can be a great add-on to your sexcapade. More sensual stamina is on the cards while using this magical tool. The ribbed details can stimulate the clitoris as well as encourage firmer and longer erections giving you and your partner the ultimate sexual high! It has 10 vibration programs that can be controlled with just a press of a button. Electro - Egg Stimulator A unique device that delivers a hands-free experience for both partners as it comes with a remote, this is the ultimate “pleasure egg”. It’s multi-purpose, comes with 12 vibration frequencies, and is travel-friendly! It also has a special BOOSTVIBE feature that further enhances the vibrations that are bound to lead to quicker and more intense orgasms. It’s also low on noise and waterproof so go ahead and go wild with your experiences! Moxie Vibrator A wearable clitoral vibrator that you can wear anywhere and everywhere, it’s a great way to spice up your sex life with discreet yet super sexy stimulations. Experience waves of pleasure with this combat vibrator as you nestle it against your clitoral hood. You can even wear it out by comfortably securing it in your underwear that stays put with a magnetic clip. It works as a fantastic tool for couples in long distance relationships as it can be controlled from anywhere in the world with the We-Connect app. Double Joy Partner Vibrator From the house of Satisfyer, the Double Joy Partner Vibrator lives up to its name. Designed to satisfy both partners, it works its magic on the penis, clitoris and G-spot all at the same time! A great way to amplify your sex play with explosive orgasms, this U-shaped vibrator is made with skin-friendly silicone, has over 100+ vibrations combinations, is easily rechargeable and waterproof too. Now that we’ve shared our top 5 picks, it’s your turn to explore and see what works best for you and your partner. Check out the other options available to make your couple play sessions a lot more sexy and exciting!

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        Ever wondered if there’s something out there for you to experience firmer erections, better stamina delayed ejaculations without actually consuming any form of drug or medication? Well, say hello to Vibrating Rings aka Penis Rings aka Cock Rings. Multiple names, one fabulous goal. Penis rings - whether they vibrate or not - can pump up your sexual performance to a whole new level. Maybe it’s time you explored this side and became your own very own “lord of the rings”...Excuse the pun, but you know what we mean, right? Key Features: Most Vibrating Rings are designed for extra pleasure. They are discreet, waterproof, and noise-free. They are made with quality silicone and have zero allergens - making it safe on skin. How to use? All vibrating rings are designed keeping in mind the same end goal - ie. to deliver the ultimate form of pleasure. But here are a few essential steps to keep in mind while using them. Step 1: Before putting on a cock ring, apply and spread a decent amount of lube around the inner part. This will help it slide down a penis more easily. Note: Preferably use a water-based lube to avoid causing damage to the ring. Step 2: Make sure your well-lubricated penis is semi-erect while placing the ring over the head and sliding it down the shaft and onto the base. You can place it over a fully erect penis as well, depending on your girth or the size of the ring.  Step 3: Start off with a position you and your partner are comfortable with - like missionary or even doggy in some cases and then you can move on to experimenting once you’ve got the hang of it. Important note: Avoid keeping a cock ring on for more than 20-30 minutes. Although the blood flow restriction is usually safe in short bursts, it can eventually turn painful after prolonged use. Why use it? The joy of mutual stimulation can be ultra exciting so why not give your sex life a sensual upgrade? Vibrating Rings are available in various shapes and forms but are all designed to be adjustable to make sure it fits no matter what size. The beauty of using these with your partner is that it works towards achieving mutually explosive and almost synchronised orgasms. Yes, it’s possible. Some of these rings are ergonomically designed with a small appendage or extension, which is almost like a small bullet vibrator which which is meant for clitoral stimulation, which is key to achieving wholesome female orgasms. Some rings are designed to enhance a man’s performance by curbing the blood flow to the penis - leading to harder and long-lasting erections. A smarter choice to make over popping pills, what say? Some vibrating rings come with bluetooth technology. These rings can be controlled with  a few good buttons and  take your orgasms to the next level. Explore and play with a range of different vibration modes to level-up your sexual experience. Couples in long distance relationships can invest in a vibrating ring that can be controlled no matter where you are in the world, with the help of an app connected to your ring - making sure your intimacy game stays strong and exciting despite the distance! If you’d like to check out the various kinds of Vibrating Rings that are available for your pleasure, here’s the range available on our website.

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        Added on: Jul 16, 2021

          A team of enthusiasts working to on eliminating stigma around sex. They aim to bring issues of sexual wellness and pleasure to the forefront.

          There are several paths we take to achieving sexual pleasure. Everything we do during acts of sexual engagement is aimed at fulfilling sexual desire. There are plenty of erotic zones in a woman’s body. All you need to do is explore them and navigate to figure out how you can achieve ultimate sexual pleasure. Vibrators are a great aid in helping you get there. These sex toys and pleasure aidsare designed to provide you with safe sexual experimentation and also allow you to move past any fears or apprehension you may have about using various kinds of sex toys and different types of vibrators for women. 

          Before you check out the different types of vibrators or vibrator cost, let's first understand how you should choose a vibrator to give you an orgasm of your choice. The first step is to figure out what are the different types of vibrators you want. In simple terms, which part of your body gives you the most pleasure? Are you someone who enjoys clitoral stimulation? Does vaginal and G-spot stimulation do the job for you? Or are you into anal stimulation? Vibrators help you figure out what kind of stimulation works for you. After, all its all about exploring your body and your sexual preferenced. 

          Broad categories of various types of vibrators:

          • Internal Vibrators: They vibrators for women are inserted into the vagina and simulate the act of penetration during intercourse. They are often long, slender, cylindrical - fish shaped and made out of silicone or latex.
          • External Vibrators: They sex aids are used on external private parts such as the clitoris and labia. If you derive sexual pleasure from these parts, external vibrators are a great clitoral stimulation toy to start with. These toys can also be used during sexual intercourse as an additional pleasure aid.
          • Combination Vibrators: As the name suggests, this is a different type of vibrator for women that stimulates both internal as well as external genitalia. You can use these to stimulate the vulva, labia and clitoris as well as the vagina through penetration. These clitoral stimulation toys cum vaginal toys offer a double bonanza in terms of orgasms.
          • Anal Vibrators: These vibrators for women have a broad base and a long handle so that the head doesnt get stuck inside. They’re excellent aids for anal play. 

          At Love Depot, you have so many varieties of vibrators that you’ll be spoilt for choice!  Let’s make it easier for you by presenting some of the different types of vibrators you can experiment with to kink up your sex life!

          1. Clitoral Vibrator:

          If you’re wondering if vaginal penetration is the only way to achieve sexual pleasure, you’ll be happy to know that's not the case. Your clitoris has 8000 nerve endings that are extremely sensitive to touch! In fact, that's twice the number of nerve endings present in the penis! Your clitoris is capable of giving you multiple orgasms when dealt with the right way. The clitoris has two components, one internal and one external. The external portion is easily accessible with a clitoral vibrator, that is enough to give you unforgettable orgasms! Pop culture has constantly told us that penetration is the only sure shot way to pleasure. Let’s get rid of that narrative shall we, because clitoral vibrators and clitoral toys give you pleasure and a lot more. Your clitoris is an important pleasure point and this type of vibrator makes sure that you’re well aware of that! In case you’re worried about the vibrator cost, don't worry. You will find several pleasure toys and different types of vibrators for women and clitoral toys that are extremely affordable on Love Depot. 

          2. Massage Wand:

          Have you ever searched for vibrators online and have come across weird mic like things that are couched as ‘face massagers?’. Well, it's possible they make your cheeks feel great, but these little mics are actually meant to massage more intimate areas of your body such as for clitoral stimulation as well as stimulation of other external errogenous zones such as the labia, vulva and even other parts of your body.
          Say hello to the massage wand, a relaxing vibrator that is sure to create magic when used with the right spells. The massage wand is a sex aids that discriminates among no one and is undoubtedly one of the best types of vibrators for women out there. Its a sex toy that is suitable for all female bodies and has adjustable vibrating intensitities that can be adjusted based on your mood. It has a round, broad-ish head and a long tail, which makes it super easy to hold. You can try various sex positions with the magic massage wand. So the next time you’re bored and solo, just get a DIY pleasure packed massage with your pleasure toys right at home! 

          3. Bullet Vibrator:

          If you’re starting out with various kinds of sex toys and are looking for discreet sex aids, the bullet vibrator is a good place to start. Do not be deceived by their size, because these cute little vibrators can give you some pretty incredible orgasms! Bullet vibrators offer very targeted stimulation. The best part about this pleasure toy is that it can be attached to harnesses and dildos and offers a lot of flexibility in terms of intensity too. Since bullet vibrators are small, they are extremely convenient for travel too. You can also use a bullet vibrator on other erogenous zones of your body for greater stimulation. These different types of vibrators for women sound great, no? The bullet vibrator cost is quite affordable too!

          4. Rabbit Vibrator:

          If you’re looking for the best of both worlds - that is vaginal stimulation as well as clitoral stimulation, the rabbit vibrator is an ideal choice of a pleasure toy for you. As the name suggests, the vibrator looks like it has two bunny  ears of disproportionate size attached to a smaller head for clitoral stimulation and a larger one for penetration, to help you stimulate that G - spot. What makes the rabbit vibrator so good, is that you get blended , two in one orgasms! Rabbit vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys as well as clitoral toys among women. These different types of vibrators for women are usually made out of silicone, latex or other body friendly chemicals that makes the process of stimulation very easy. 

          5. Wearable vibrator: 

          While your standard clitoral and bullet vibrators continue to be very popular, wearable vibrators are severely underrated and offer so much potential for unforgettable mind blowing orgasms. If you want hands-free sexual stimulation and really want to enjoy the full experience of going solo without constantly holding on to your vibrator, the wearable vibrator is the perfect choice for you. You can also use wearable vibrators outside the bedroom, since most of them are extremely quiet and make absolutely no sound. Depending on whether you want clitoral stimulation, G spot stimulation or even anal stimulation, you have different types of vibrators to choose from.

          6. Suction Vibrators:

          Suction vibrators are a very different type of vibrator.  They imitate oral sex (Yes) and is indeed a milestone in this sexual revolution. Clitoral suction vibrators create air pressure and in turn a vaccum following which the vibrator sucks on your clitoris, imitating what would typically take place during oral sex. Here comes a rather interesting part about this type of vibrator. Have you ever wondered what oral sex and penetrative sex at the same time feels like? You can indulge this curiosity by investing in a suction vibrator. It is literally a multi - orgasmic magic machine. Also, many women cannot orgasm through penetrative sex alone. They require clitoral stimulation as well as penetration to achieve sexual pleasure. 

           If you’re someone who wants to please their female partner, why not focus on the penetration bit, and let a suction vibrator as a sex aid take care of the rest? Various kinds of sex toys such as suction vibrators for women help both partners enjoy sex to the fullest! 

          7. The G-Spot Vibrator:

          Ahh, the mysterious G-spot. People spend half their lives trying to find this cryptic pleasure paradise, and we really don't want women missing out on some great G-spot stimulation, do we? Women, after all deserve heightened sexual experiences and there’s nothing better than a G-spot vibrator to make them happen! As the name suggests, this type of vibrator has one mission, one aim - cut straight to the chase and hit the nail on the head. The G-spot is a notorious errogenous zone on the upper wall of the vagina, and is actually part of the same set of nerves that are present in the clitoris. The clioris has 8000 nerve endings, which means you can imagine how sensitive the G spit is!  This sex aid is designed in such as way so as to perfectly tap into that orgasmically abundant zone to get your toes tingling. The G- spot vibrator is quite long and sleek, and does a good job of making pleasure happen. The G - spot vibrator cost varies based on brand and material, and you will find affordable pleasure toys, different types of vibrators for women, and various kinds of sex toys here at Love Depot. 

          8. Anal Vibrators:

          An anal vibrator, as the name suggests is a vibrator that is designed to sexually stimulate the anus for both men and women. They produce vibrations in the rectum that give rise to pleasurable sensations. They have a larger base, many times even spherical to prevent the vibrator from getting stuck inside the anus. Remember, the anus does not produce natural lubrication, therefore its very important to use plenty of lube before you decide to use an anal vibrator. There are different types of vibrators such as vibrating anal probes, butt plugs and even beads. If you’re into anal play, an anal vibrator is the perfect sex aid that shoud be on your bedside table! 

          At Love Depot, shop from a range of clitoral stimulation toys, anal toys, different types of vibrators for women, foreplay toys, BDSM toys and more to indulge in orgasmic solo play and spice up your sex life!

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