Have you ever wanted to get turned on and experience some mind blowing orgasms? Do you wish to embark on a journey of discovering your sexuality? Welcome to the only guide you’ll ever need on self pleasure. 

There are many ways to indulge in self pleasure, and in today’s world there is a plethora of sex toys and sexual aids that you can use to reach that big O. Self pleasure sans a partner is also a very safe way to experience pleasure, without having to worry about pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. Solo female masturbation also has several health benefits such as it helps to reduce stress, enable better sleep, relieve menstrual cramps and makes you feel more comfortable with your body. 

Here is a detailed guide on everything you need to know to experience self pleasure

What are the different methods of solo female masturbation?

Your body consists of different erotic zones and stimulating any of these zones can help you attain self pleasure. Today, there are sex toys and sexual aids available for all kinds of orgasms and based on what gets you on the most, you can decide which toy to use during solo play. Here are the different types of orgams one experiences to attain sexual pleasure:

1. Clitoral orgasm: 

The clitoris is one of the most sensitive parts of a woman’s body. It has a whopping 8000 nerve endings that are extremely sensitive to touch. Women often use their fingers to attain clitoral climax but you can use vibrators, and other clitoral toys to get turned on and stimulate your clitoris during solo play or solo female masturbation. 

2. Vaginal Orgasm:

If penetration turns you on, then you can try achieving a vaginal orgasm to attain sexual self pleasure. There are many sexual aids such as didos and vibrators for women that are available to help you get there. Get turned on and feel your vaginal muscles throb with powerful vibrators and the best sex products during solo play! 

3. Anal Pleasure:

Some people are into anal pleasure, and you have a variety of anal toys to help you get comfotable. Remember, the anus does not produce natural lubrication, therefore it is very important to apply a lot of lube before you indulge in any anal play. Explore a range of the best sex products available for anal play on our online store to get turned on! 

4. Use a combination of toys and more:

During solo female masturbation, if you want greater pleasure you can use both your fingers as well as a sex toy for greater sexual pleasure. For example, you can use a sex toy for penetration and your fingers for a clitoral orgasm. The more the merrier!

5. Explore other sensitive zones in your body:

Your genitals are not the only erogenous zones in your body. Remember when Monica from Friends talks about 7 erogenous zones in the body? There are many many more. You can squeeze your nipples, use feathers, ice cubes, gels and many more on your stomach, inner thighs etc. All these zones produce pleasurable sensations in your body, which you must explore during solo play!  

How to get started on your journey towards self pleasure?

Solo female masturbation or self pleasure is a very personal experience for every woman. There are no defined sets of rules for self pleasure. One method might work for someone else, but it may not work for you. Masturbation and exploring sexual fantasies is a journey that takes a while before you can truly become comfortable with your sexuality and your body. If you’re a beginner to masturbation, no worries – you have a range of the best sex products and safe sexual aids to help you get started. 

1. Get the ambience right:

Getting your environment in the mood is as important as you getting into a sensual mood. You dont want to mastubate in a dirty, smelly or noisy environment. You can apply nice bedsheets, dim the lighting, light some candles, use aroma therapy and home fragrances to set the mood. You can also play some sensual music to get turned on.  

2. Lube up: 

For some reason, there is a stigma around using lubricants during sex or solo play. It is assumed that all women naturally produce a lot of lube to get turned on which is not at all true. Many perfectly healthy women have trouble producing natural lubrication and there’s where artificial lube comes into the picture. These lubricants are sexual aids that are safe to use and they also come in really fragrant flavours! Lube helps relieve any pain and enables toys to penetrate your vagina much more easily during self pleasure. At Love Depot, shop from a range of natural, flavoured, silicone, and water based lubricants! 

3. Let your imagination run wild:

Do you have a major crush on someone at work? Or is there a date you’re looking forward to the following weekend? Whoever it is, allow your mind to engage in sexual fantasies with this person. Imagine in graphic detail what turns you on and what sexual acts excites you the most! Your imagination is often the gateway to the big-O. If you’re having trouble imagining, you can read erotica or watch pornography. However, while indulging in solo female masturbation, make sure that the porn you watch is verified and has performers that have consented to perfoming sexual acts in the video.

Explore the best sex products on our online store to get turned on for solo play and help your imagination run wilder! 

4. Explore other erogenous zones: 

As mentioned before, engage in some nipple play, thighs etc and feel every sensation come alive. 

5. Take your own time:

Self pleasure is not a competition. It’s not about who reaches an orgasm first. Play around with different parts of your body and see what turns you on. Slowly experiment with different sex toys, sexual aids and the best sex products during solo play to see what you like the most. 

Let’s explore each orgasm in greater detail

1. Clitoral self pleasure:

As mentioned before, the clitoral is insanely sensitive! The clitoris is twice as sensitive as the male penis. Ladies, it’s time to stimulate your clit and get some mind blowing orgasms. Here’s how you can experience clitoral self pleasure:

• To get turned on, you can start by slowly caressing and feeling your outer pubis and run your fingers up and down your outer and inner vulva 
• Find your clitoris and slowly start rubbing it back and forth in a rhythmic fashion. Once your clitoris becomes wet or after you’ve applied lube, you can increase the pace of stimulation.
• You can also buy a vibrator for women from our online store, to reach an orgasm! 

That’s pretty much it to clitoral solo female masturbation! Find a rhythm you like, stick to it, increase the pace and achieve self pleasure. 

2. Vaginal self pleasure:

Many women initially find it difficult to get turned on and achieve self pleasure through vaginal penetration. Getting there is a journey, that you can experince through your fingers or sex toys. To achieve a vaginal orgasm, here are some things you should do:

• It’s important that the vagina be wet before you penetrate it with your fingers or a sex toy. You can use lube, and slowly apply it in your vagina. You can also rub your vagina from the outside to stimulate the nerve endings on your vagina and clitoris. 
• Once you are sufficiently wet, slowly insert your fingers inside and create an up-down thrusting motion with your sexual aid.  The same can be done with a dildo or vibrator for women too. 
• Increase the pace of motion and feel your heartbeat racing. You will experience a tingling sensation in your fingers and toes and also feel muscle contractions in your inner thighs. All these sensations indicate an upcoming orgasm. While you may experience a big orgasm, don’t worry if you don’t. You will still experience a lot of pleasure and get turned on throughout the whole process. 

Vibrators, especially G spot vibrators for women are a great way to stimulate your G-spot, the most sensitive area in your vagina, for those coveted explosive orgasms. Do invest in a good sexual aid or vibrator on your journey towards self pleasure. 

3. Anal Self Pleasure:

The rectum and vagina share a wall where the G spot is located, so you can indirectly stimulate your G spot by indulging in anal self pleasure. But, as stresed upon before, make sure you use plenty of lubrication before you indulge in anal play! 

Here are some steps you can follow to achive anal self pleasure during solo female masturbation: 

• Start by rubbing the outer opening of your anus  and slowly insert a finger inside your anus. You can also insert a sex toy inside once your anus is fully lubricated. 
• You can either try a circular rhythm or normal in and out penetration. Increase the pace until it builds up to an orgasm. 
• Toys are a great way to achieve anal self pleasue! Use anal beads, butt plugs and vibrators to get started. 

While, it may initially feel uncomfortable, with regular experimentation through sexual aids, get turned on and enjoy solo play to the fullest! 

4. Combined self pleasure:

Why not turn things up, by simultaneously stimulating various erogenous zones in your body? To really get that full body experience, 

• You can use both your hands to stimulate various erogenous zones such as your inner thighs, nipples and neck. You can also use a combined or hybrid vibrator to stimulate both your clitoris as well as your vagina. 
• You can use your fingers to stimulate your clitoris and a sex toy for vaginal penetration. Make sure you use the best sex products for safe and pleasurable penetration. 
• Slowly build up the pace for both and experience mind blowing orgasms!

Combined self pleasure is a great way to get turned on real quick, and also experiment with multiple areas of your body. Foreplay toys, dildos and vibrators for women are a great place to get started during solo play! 

Self pleasure and solo female masturbation is a wonderful way for all of us to feel heightened sexual experiences and become comfortable with our sexuality. It is when we figure out what we like, that we are able to share these experiences with a partner too.

At Love Depot, shop from a range of clitoral stimulation toys, anal toys, different types of vibrators for women, foreplay toys, BDSM toys and more to get started on your journey towards self pleasure! 

It’s time to break those shackles and embrace new sexual adventures!